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Two years ago my three young children were put in the worst of positions. Their father and I were in the throes of a painful and bitter divorce. To add insult to injury, we were forced to sell our 2 beloved pet Dachshunds. Money was tight and we just couldn't care for them. It was an emotional upheaval of epic proportions.
Devastated and disheartened, I slowly set in motion the
rebuilding of our lives. We often cried
over the loss of our sweet pets and the comic relief and cuddles they gave. I was always fretful and prayerful over how
the divorce (and the devastating reasons for it) would play out in my
children's development and future happiness.
As finances began to improve, I entertained the notion of
another family pet. We needed healing
and hope. Where else could we also give
healing and hope than at the local animal shelter? I had no idea that the shelter would be the
beginning of my prayers for my children being answered.
That day we saved what I affectionately called "the
ugliest dog in the pound." A 6 month old mutt who had evaded euthanasia
twice. A better dog has never walked the
earth. Looking for a deal on a groomer,
I soon found a young autistic woman who bathed and groomed dogs out of her
parent's garage. The money she earned on
her discounted services was then used to rescue dogs and cats from the animal
shelter. She gets them all of their
shots, needed medical treatments, spays and neuters them and then adopts them
out to loving homes.
My friendship with this kind and earnest woman soon led us
down the path of fostering orphaned kittens for her. It allows her to have more room to save other
animals while teaching my children invaluable life lessons. We only foster 1-2 kittens at a time. Extra time is really not in my vocabulary. I am a single mother. I run a childcare business out of my home
which adds 6 toddlers to the chaos 11 hours each day. However, this small act of service and
compassion has led to miraculous healing in our lives.
My hope is that giving "pennies of our time" will
help heal our broken hearts and help my children (who are all adopted
themselves) to overcome hardships in productive ways. I hope they will turn to service for
fulfillment when feeling empty instead of temporary "highs" that
never make one whole. I hope that it
will eventually translate into their adult lives in the form of nurturing
parenting of their own children, an abhorrence of cruelty, no matter how small,
and in selfless service where they are, with what they have, no matter how
meager.
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Thank you for sharing your experiences. Your children are blessed to have such a wise and prayerful mother. Lucky pets too!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for writing this - it has helped me enormously today to read your experiences and how much this has helped you and your children on the road to healing. I send you hugs from France.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that you enjoyed Leisha's post. I shared your comment with her and it brightened her day. I am always amazed at how much we gain when we share and receive stories from one another.
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